For while, I actually believed that I mightiness travel cursed - I know it's absolutely crazy but that me for you. I can't think a fourth dimension when things own got gone apparently sailing for me, it's e'er been ane fighting subsequently another. I tin listen you lot say, but life is difficult together with it's all most the fighting it makes it worth it at the end. Sometimes, I merely desire to things to boot the bucket the agency I desire them to boot the bucket without whatsoever hurdles, is that also much to ask?
I am belike non cursed, together with belike don't fifty-fifty own got the worse luck inwards the Blue Planet but it surely feels similar it. I experience similar I own got to run extra difficult together with that is merely to boot the bucket on upwardly amongst everyone else. It doesn't aid that nosotros tin constantly bombard amongst images of people's perfect lives all over social media. When you lot come across soul your historic menstruum or fifty-fifty younger doing then thus good inwards life, it tin travel similar where did I boot the bucket wrong, why am I failing at life?
My mum e'er says I am inwards my caput agency also much. Ok, which I volition acknowledge this is really true, I volition dissect everything petty appear of everything that's going on inwards my life - it's then exhausting, why is in that place no halt push clit for thinking? She is e'er reminding me that things volition hap when they are meant to happen, together with everyone is on a dissimilar track. There is no betoken inwards comparing, where I am today to where soul else is at. So I own got made a pledge to myself, to halt focusing on everyone else together with what they are doing together with merely focus on me! It's easier said than done, but I am trying. All I tin practice is run difficult on what I desire together with think that I volition reap the rewards when the fourth dimension comes.
I think the notion of exclusively recognising the large major life milestones together with celebrating those, plays hugely into this. Life is most the large together with the petty things, inwards fact, it's all the petty that makes it. Waiting to celebrate together with stair out your success against milestones gear upwardly past times lodge is a sure agency to experience similar a failure. We own got to laid immediate goals equally good equally long term goals, ane time you lot accomplish these immediate goals you lot larn confident together with empowered that you lot tin accomplish change. It builds your belief together with motivation to strive for those bigger goals. There are then many petty things that I own got achieved together with that you lot own got achieved that nosotros should travel proud of. If nosotros recognise these achievements together with accept the fourth dimension to travel proud of these, it volition position you lot together with me inwards a stronger seat to boot the bucket subsequently those bigger challenges. Start small, I know it's really much cliché but in that place is a argue why people e'er tell it.
When you lot are feeling this, it's then difficult to think that you lot are belike non at lone together with in that place are hundred to a greater extent than people feeling just the same. I estimate that life tin seem unfair. I was watching an episode of Keeping Up With Kardashians, together with Kim Kardashian was literally inwards tears because she felt the exact same agency together with idea that zip came easily to her. I was similar on concord on a minute, you are Kim Kardashian you lot own got the Blue Planet at your feet. It merely goes to present that nosotros actually don't know what goes on inwards someone's life no affair how much they direct to let out there. It gives me to a greater extent than or less comfort that I am non lone inwards this. Remember social media is non a existent reflection of someone's life, exclusively the skilful parts.
It's slow to forget that everyone is going through their ain laid of problems together with setbacks. Life is gonna travel hard, it doesn't affair who you lot because life doesn't laissez passer ii hoots if you lot are Kim K or you lot it's gonna dish out to a greater extent than or less hardship your way. So I am belike non cursed, it's merely life dishing it out to me because good it can. All I tin practice it laissez passer dorsum twice equally difficult to accomplish what I desire to achieve. I don't ever laissez passer upwardly on yourself, you lot merely own got to remind yourself that you lot tin practice it!
Please tell I am non lone inwards this.
Zeynab x
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