It was my birthday yesterday, I planned to pose upwards this postal service yesterday but I was likewise busy partying (just joking). I thought it would move actually prissy to part unopen to of the life lessons I receive got learnt this year. While writing this post, I got side tracked yesteryear the real of import in addition to breaking intelligence that PRINCE HARRY AND MEGHAN MARKLE ARE ENGAGED!!!!!!!!! This is amazing, how create I acquire my real ain prince charming?
Back to business, I turned 28 on the 26th November. I thought I would move actually hapless nigh turning older but 28 isn't sometime at all in addition to I loathe the pressure level lodge puts on us to receive got all our shit together yesteryear the fourth dimension nosotros are 30. To move honest, turning older is a privilege that non a lot of people have.
This yr has been quite a whirlwind, it's simply gone yesteryear therefore fast. Before I become on in addition to on, simply best that I acquire into the lessons:
1. Life is unexpected, ever facial expression the unexpected:
At the cease of 2016, I had real large plans in addition to nix has gone the agency I was expecting it to. I was inwards a chore that I was happy in, I thought that I would progress inwards that company. If I am beingness honest, it was my security job. I felt super comfortable in addition to and then I got fired! It was the worse intelligence (at the fourth dimension it felt similar it), it came out of nowhere (totally unexpected)! But to my surprise, I was actually proactive in addition to simply brushed it nether the rug in addition to went out of my agency to testify to everyone that I was ok in addition to had a guide maintain on everything. I could give y'all all the deets but what I learned is that planning is corking but don't rhythm out yourself upwards if they don't become to excogitation essentially. Life has a agency of working itself out, y'all simply receive got to move for what y'all want. If y'all were wondering, I am definitely inwards a ameliorate seat in addition to onto doing bigger in addition to ameliorate things in addition to I am real very excited for the future!!!! I mean value that my postal service on rejection goes actually good this lesson, depository fiscal establishment fit that out (of course of report afterward y'all receive got read this post, gonna move out the link here).
2. If y'all receive got an idea, become for it!
Life is likewise brusk in addition to fourth dimension simply flies by! So if y'all receive got an thought or y'all desire to starting fourth dimension doing xyz, create it! Because tomorrow isn't guaranteed. I am taking my ideas in addition to putting them into activity in addition to I haven't ever felt to a greater extent than passionate or excited nigh the future. It's difficult to starting fourth dimension off anything, but that is the difficult part. Trust me, brand that excogitation of activity in addition to create it. There volition move hurdles in addition to y'all volition acquire over those hurdles because in that place is an abundance of resources in addition to assistance at your command.
3. You receive got to move your biggest rock:
No i else has your dorsum similar y'all do. You volition ever move in that place for yourself. The hardest Lesson I learned this yr was that y'all can't rely on anyone, that seems a footling harsh but it's true. Everyone has in that place ain affair going on in addition to their ain laid upwards of problems. You tin move in that place for each other but, at the cease of the twenty-four hr menstruum y'all tin ever rely on yourself. My downfall was that I was relying on others far likewise much, in addition to I would experience therefore disappointed in addition to upset when they didn't alive upwards to my expectations (this sounds therefore crazy, I know) in addition to that is nix create amongst them but to a greater extent than myself.
4. There is nix incorrect amongst a footling self-promotion:
This betoken goes actually good amongst the final point. You receive got to move your ain champion. Something I learned early inwards blogging, was that if y'all don't promote yourself, no i else is going to create it for you. There is therefore much dissonance online today, if y'all receive got 10 tweets linking dorsum to your site solely a real very pocket-size percent of people volition run into that. Go for it, y'all receive got to acquire yourself out in that place to move noticed! Promote yourself in addition to your arts and crafts whereever in addition to create equally oft equally y'all require to create it!
5. There is ever gonna move someone that is better, prettier in addition to younger than you:
I am actually dishing out the harsh truths today, I am sorry. It's truthful though, in addition to when everyone's real glamorous in addition to perfect lifestyle forced onto us inwards every corner, it's difficult non to detect yourself comparing yourself to them. It's hard, I am non going to sit down hither in addition to prevarication to y'all guys, comparing is a correct hurting inwards the backside. You simply receive got to effort to move the best version of yourself, move harder in addition to recall that it's proficient enough.
6. Manners don't toll a thing:
People ever nation that I am a prissy someone in addition to that actually used to appall me. I thought it was wearisome but y'all know what beingness prissy is underrated. Some people are simply horrible. Come on people, manners don't toll a affair I hope you. Also, beingness prissy to others doesn't accept anything away from you. Be nice, it's a proficient affair trust me!
7. Adult friendships are precise, don't fail them:
People come upwards in addition to go, friends disappear. It's business office of life, people drift in addition to y'all outgrow each other. Making friends equally an adult si nix similar the proficient sometime days. So prioritise the friends that y'all create have. You don't receive got to alive inwards each other's pockets but brand the fourth dimension to run into each other, reply to their messages. It's the pocket-size things, no i has fourth dimension for large gestures. Good friends are difficult to come upwards by, therefore proceed them close.
8. Life is likewise brusk to move stressing over society's ideals:
I am that someone that volition effort to delight everyone. I receive got been known to pose other's opinions in addition to feels earlier mine. Not a proficient thing. I receive got been therefore busy living to fulfill society's, in addition to everyone's else standards that I haven't forgotten nigh me. Start living for yourself (that is therefore cliche) in addition to forget nigh everyone else. You laid upwards the standards in addition to alive life how y'all desire to, recall it's your life!
I hope y'all all had a corking weekend in addition to lovely twenty-four hr menstruum on my birthday. Until side yesteryear side year, 26th November.
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